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DO NARCISSIST DISAPPEAR
By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist
Published On: 14th January 2025
Narcs disappear when they realize the jig is up. They have pushed you so far, there is no return. You know who they really are - the mask has completely fallen. They know you are close to being done with them, yet, they have to beat you to the punch. At this point in time, I can honestly say I am happy he’s gone. No more drama, no more chaos, no more running to doctors to have STD screenings. A weight has been lifted. After time, you will be so happy they are out of your life for good!
When you disappear on a narcissist, it can trigger intense reactions because they thrive on control and attention. Without your presence, they may attempt to regain power through manipulation, guilt-tripping, or smear campaigns. The sudden loss of their “supply” forces them to confront the reality that they’re not in control, which can lead to anger or even a frantic attempt to get you back. However, staying no-contact is often the most empowering choice, allowing you to break free from their toxic influence and start healing.
● Loss of Control
The first thing you need to understand is the narcissist’s intense need for control. They thrive on knowing what will happen next and ensuring they control the outcome. When they lose that control, it shakes them deeply. This isn’t about playing games on your part; it’s simply that you’ve had enough. But for the narcissist, losing control triggers a profound…