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FIVE THINGS NARCISSISTS WILL DO WHEN IT'S HARD TO CONTROL YOU.
By: Khalif Barkhadle
Digital Journalist
Published On: 17th July 2024.
People who are narcissists are often very jealous and angry over small things. They can’t show any real, positive emotions, and they’re very ashamed of themselves, so they act out a lot, especially once they have you on their web. They never give you anything back and only take things from you. Most likely, you’re a giver, and you can’t stop because it’s in your nature to do so. I know that narcissists can tell when someone is giving or caring from miles away.
However, what the narcissist would do when they know you’re hard to control? Do you think they’ll just give up like that? Let’s talk about this topic in today’s article.
Number 1: They’ll make you feel guilty for everything.
The goal of the guilt trip is to make them feel bad, control them, and draw attention away from their behavior, which is the real problem. They have also done wrong things to their partners. Everything is backward and upside down as if the world were turned on its head. The narcissist uses the guilt trip to make them feel like they are the ones who have been hurt by your bad behavior, even though it’s the other way around.
When they fail to control, dominate, trick, gaslight, or manipulate you, they may even say that you are the one manipulating them. Even better, they are trying to change the way someone else sees you. By projecting their own…