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FIVE WAYS TO WIN AGAINST A NARCISSIST.
By: Khalif Barkhadle
Digital Journalist
Published On: 16th July 2024
You can never win against a narcissist if you fight them their way because they stoop so low as to destroy and punish you. They do things you would never imagine doing. So, how do you win against them then? To answer that question, we must first understand what winning against a narcissist means in this context.
It certainly does not mean inflicting pain on them or making them suffer because doing that wouldn’t bring you real peace. Real winning against a narcissist means setting yourself free from their clutches and focusing on your healing.
How do you do that?
So, in today’s topic, we will learn about five ways to win against a narcissist. Read to the end because the fifth point will be about how you have already won against a narcissist. Let’s get started
Number 1: Become Unpredictable and Emotionally Closed Off
Nothing is more unsettling to a narcissist than not knowing what thoughts are running through your head. So, they try to foresee your approach. They predatorily try to read the sound of your voice, the look in your eyes, and your aura to know what you are thinking and feeling. But they panic when there is no obvious way to find out what you’re up to.
Consequently, they try to trigger your responses by perceptive and indirect questioning and random button-pushing to reveal what you are…