NARCISSIST FAVORITE TEXT MESSAGES.

By: Khalif Barkhadle
Digital Journalist.
Published On: 29th January 2024.

Whatever phase you are in the relationship, there is a long list of red flags that’ll tell you that you’re already in the narcissist’s text game. They go from texting that they miss you to being unresponsive to texting that you’re too clingy, then back to texting that they want you so much. It can drive you crazy! In this article, We will talk about the what, when, and why behind text messages from narcissists.

● LOVE BOMBING PHASE
So, I’m going to kind of go through, kind of love bomb, devalue and discard, and after the discard, they kind of come back through and sort of hoover you a little bit as well. It kind of starts with love-bombing and kind of ends with discard, but then they’re going to go back and forth between love bombs, devalue them, and then back to love-bombing, devaluing, and discarding. This kind of hoovering is almost really kind of like a love bombing in a way; it’s all like a toxic stew; it’s not linear; they don’t go, love, devalue, or discard; they kind of go back and forth between the phases, which is part of what causes the trauma brain and destabilizes you. It’s important to understand that because that’s why it’s very, very difficult to negotiate with them, a lot of times because your brain is like so scrambled sometimes, so in the…