SEVEN CLUES TO SPOT A COVERT NARCISSIST IN CONVERSATION.

By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist

Published On: 5th December 2024

Covert narcissists are Masters of Disguise, blending seamlessly into our lives while leaving a trail of emotional destruction. Their subtle manipulation tactics can be nearly impossible to detect, that is until it’s too late.

Narcissists, in general, are people who have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. But while the more obvious narcissists are easy to spot because they’re loud and attention-seeking, covert narcissists are much trickier. They blend into our lives without raising suspicion, often appearing humble, shy, or caring. However, underneath that facade, they can be just as manipulative and harmful as their more overt counterparts.

So, in this article, we’re going to uncover seven conversational clues that reveal a covert narcissist’s true nature. These red flags are easy to miss if you don’t know how to look out for them, so let’s dive in with number one.

Number 1: Mixed messages.

Mixed messages are going to be very difficult to detect with a covert narcissist early on, especially if there’s love bombing, which there usually is. They might be very flattering with their words, and they might stay in a conversation with you for a long time, signaling that they’re interested in you. But if you’re paying close attention, you might notice that it’s all…