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SEVEN CLUES TO SPOT THE NARCISSIST EARLY
By: Khalif Barkhadle
Digital Journalist
Published On: 23rd June 2024
I am constantly intrigued by early signs of narcissistic behavior, but here’s the silver lining: we’re in this together. I’ve been compiling a list of early warning signs, and trust me, sharing is caring. So, read until the end as I expose seven early clues of someone who is a narcissist.
Number 1: Love bombing.
Ever heard of this one? It’s like being showered with attention and affection but with an agenda. Narcissists are pros at this game. They’ll sweep you off your feet, making you feel like the most special person. They’ll listen to your every word, shower you with gifts, and make you believe you found your soulmate in record time.
Have you ever felt like you were moving too fast in a relationship?
Did the attention feel overwhelming yet strangely addictive? If so, you might have encountered a narcissist in disguise. They’re masters at making you feel like you’re living in a fairy tale, only to pull the rug out from under you when you least expect it. It’s important to recognize these red flags early on and trust your gut instincts before things spiral out of control.
Number 2: Inflated ego.
Let’s be clear, confidence is great, but when someone’s ego is as big as Mount kilimanjaro , it’s not so appealing. Narcissists are all about themselves, always chatting about how amazing they are. It’s like every talk you have…