SEVEN NARCISSISTIC BEHAVIOURS THAT SEEM NORMAL BUT ARE ACTUALLY TOXIC

By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist

Published On: 21st April 2025

The thing about narcissistic individuals and their behavior is that we don’t always recognize it as abuse. It’s not always because we’re naive to their behavior. Narcissists have ways of pacifying people, making their actions seem normal, and creating self-doubt in others.

This causes people to go against their instincts because they lack concrete evidence or proof to say, “Hang on a minute, no, that’s not what you meant by that.” Narcissists often rely on plausible deniability to avoid accountability.

✓Hidden Manipulation Tactics
Narcissistic individuals rarely show their true nature outright. Instead, their manipulation is often wrapped in gifts, generosity, and behaviors that appear selfless, normal, or even caring at first glance. On the surface, narcissistic individuals may seem like everybody else. However, beneath this facade, their actions are designed to manipulate, control, confuse, and break down your sense of self.

✓Love Bombing and Flattery
Narcissistic individuals frequently use excessive flattery and love bombing, which can feel like genuine compliments or care, especially at the start of a relationship. They shower you with affection, attention, gifts, false promises, and constant messages, appearing caring, kind, and romantic. However, every action is a transaction a…