SEVEN RED FLAGS YOU’RE DATING A NARCISSIST (AND HOW TO PROTECT YOUR HEART)

By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist

Published On: 13th February 2025

Falling in love is exciting, but not all relationships are what they seem. Narcissists can be charming, confident, and extremely sexy—until their darker traits emerge. What starts as a whirlwind romance can quickly turn into a toxic relationship, leaving you questioning yourself, your feelings, and even your sanity. If you notice strange and painful patterns in your relationship, it may be time to dig deeper. Here are seven key signs that you may be dating a narcissist, along with tips on spotting and protecting yourself from these damaging behaviours.

1. They’re the Star of Their Own Show (and Everyone Else’s, Too)
A narcissist sees the world as a big stage, and they’re the star—everyone else, including you, plays a supporting role. You may be drawn to their confidence, sense of humour, or ambition, but you quickly realize that there’s no room for anyone else. Narcissists can spend hours talking about their accomplishments, appearance, and opinions, expecting admiration while belittling your role
Spot the red flag: Pay attention if they constantly turn the conversations toward themselves or interrupt you when you engage them. If you’re never in the spotlight and your stories or concerns don’t seem important, they probably see you as an “audience” rather than a partner.