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TEN SIGNS A NARCISSIST IS DISCARDING YOU
By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist
Published On: 2nd January 2025
Do you feel like there’s no way out? Like you’re trapped in a relationship with a narcissist, and nothing will ever change. You’re not alone; the first step toward feeling better is recognizing that your situation is not normal. Narcissists are known for discarding people without warning or reason; they can be tough to get out of your life.
Here are 10 signs a narcissist is discarding you.
Number 1: The narcissists start to find fault in your behavior.
Notice them pointing out things about your behavior or personality, they didn’t have an issue with before. This can be a sign that a narcissist is discarding you. It can mean they are trying to devalue you, to get rid of you without feeling bad when they’re done using you for their purposes.
The Narcissist will say things like, you were not doing enough for yourself, and you are too self-centered. Or you think the world revolves around you and your needs. Narcissists will find fault with everything you do and say, even if it means something that would typically be considered a compliment. They will always ensure the spotlight is on them, and try to make you feel bad about yourself, so they can feel better about themselves.
Number 2: Narcissists will begin to complain about everything you do.