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THE THREE TYPES OF PEOPLE NARCISSIST ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT TOLERATE - ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?
By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist
Published On: 24th December 2024
In this article, we're going to delve into a topic that explores the kinds of individuals that narcissists find it challenging to tolerate. To put it simply, narcissists are those who have a hard time accepting certain types of people. We'll break down the reasons behind their intolerance and explore the characteristics that make it difficult for narcissists to get along with these individuals.
1. The person who represents diversity.
The first person that they cannot tolerate is the person who lives in diversity from the narcissist. You see what this reveals is that when you come along and you show yourself to be different, narcissists carry on the inside of them an inability or an unwillingness to empathize.
Rather than approaching you with your diverse beliefs and opinions and preferences, etc., rather than approaching you thinking, “I could probably learn something here,” or “There’s something going on in your life that’s not consistent with mine, what’s that all about,” in their mind, they’re thinking, “Why would I want to understand you? If you’re not in my club, if you don’t think or act or believe or behave as I do, then I have no use for you.”
It illustrates that narcissists are strongly transactional in the way that they engage. They don’t really need to know you as a human being; they want to know you as far as your utility goes…