They will revalue you if you start moving on with your life and word gets around to them that certain people are hanging out with you or that you’ve been talking to their competition… this kind of stuff gives you value . The narcissist will want you again just because they find out that everyone else wants you . They will revalue you when you become valuable again . They want to have what everyone else wants to have and if they can get you back by lying/manipulating they will do so just to tear you back down again into nothing . This is why one has to go no contact with them. Stay away from them and you will recover your value / self esteem.