THIS FIVE SECOND TEST EXPOSES A NARCISSIST.

By: Khalif Barkhadle
Digital Journalist

Published On: 8th December 2024

Have you ever wondered if there’s a quick and easy way to check if someone’s a narcissist? Whether it’s a boss or coworker, someone you’ve just met, or even somebody that you’ve cared about for a long time, when you’re dealing with a narcissist, the goal is not only to spot manipulation, stress, and emotional abuse.

If you’re an empathetic, giving, and caring person, this test is crucial because you’re exactly the type of person they target. I’ve spent the last 20 years researching the connection between self-worth and narcissistic relationships. As a coach, author, and someone who’s lived these challenges firsthand, I know how devastating a narcissist can be.

In this article, I’ll share a simple 5-second test that you can use anywhere, at any time, real-life examples of how Their hidden mindset: what the narcissist wants.
Let’s begin by breaking down the narcissist’s mindset so you have a clear picture of their motivation and who they target. Imagine you’re at a dinner party, or maybe at work, or at a family function. First, let’s look at your mindset in these kinds of situations. Maybe you’re looking for someone that you can connect with, or someone who seems likable or friendly. Or perhaps you’re feeling insecure and you hope to blend in. You might also see somebody laughing and carefree and feel drawn towards them.