This Is What The Narcissist Never Thought You Would Do That Makes Them Regret Until They Die

By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist

Published On: 21st December 2024

This article focuses on the number one thing they never anticipated you would do. Let’s revisit your time with the narcissist before I reveal that. What kind of relationship was it, and how did it affect you? How have you changed forever since you entered that relationship with a toxic narcissist, unaware of the concept of narcissism due to a lack of education and awareness? You thought you were merely chalking up the relationship to a series of bad days and dismissed it as the actions of someone with issues playing the victim or mistreating you, but you couldn’t fully understand it.
You kept working for the narcissist and maintained the relationship. As I’ve mentioned on the channel, your time, money, energy, effort, love, empathy, social standing, social circle, finances, and health were all depleting. This happened because you gave too much; you supported an unproductive relationship. The narcissist was trying to puncture holes in your boat so it would capsize as you paddled upstream. Why? Because they had another boat lined up behind yours to jump onto once they ensured yours sank.

The narcissistic abusive cycle includes these examples and more. It involves a relationship where one person gives everything they can and more, while the other—the narcissist—takes and takes, demanding even more. They disrupt everything they touch throughout…