WHY NARCISSISTS PROVOKE YOU AND HOW TO RESPOND EFFECTIVELY

By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist

Published On: 1st January 2025

Are you tired of constantly being provoked by narcissists? You’re not alone. Dealing with a narcissist can be incredibly draining and damaging to one’s mental health. If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a narcissist, you know how exhausting and frustrating it can be.

But what if we told you there’s a way out? In this article, we’ll reveal why they keep provoking you and the best ways to respond to their antics. This way, you can finally start breaking free from their manipulation.

1. It’s Their Way of Isolating You

Narcissists love to push your buttons because, at the end of the day, they want you to feel completely alone. Their provocations create a constant sense of doubt within you, making you second-guess everything and wonder if there’s something wrong with your perception of the world.

This is why you’ll often hear them say things like, “You’re the only one who thinks that way,” or “Everyone else disagrees with you.” These comments are designed to make you feel isolated, as if no one understands you. Their goal is to make you feel outnumbered and powerless.
When you’re in that vulnerable state, you’re more likely to turn to them for approval, reassurance, or guidance. This is exactly what they want—to make you feel like they’re your only source of stability. It’s a way for them to maintain control. Think of it like…