WHY THE NARCISSIST’S LIFE BEGINS
TO FALL APART AFTER DISCARDING YOU

By: Khalif Barkhadle,
Digital Journalist

Published On: 14th January 2025

Have you ever found yourself pouring your heart and soul into a relationship, only to be met with a gnawing sense of emptiness and a lack of appreciation? Perhaps you’ve experienced the bewildering dynamics of someone who craves your constant attention yet seems emotionally unavailable when you need them most. These unsettling experiences might point to a deeper issue: you could be entangled with a narcissist.

Narcissistic behavior presents a perplexing paradox. Outwardly, narcissists can appear remarkably charming, engaging, and deeply invested in their relationships. Yet, beneath this carefully constructed façade lies a different reality—one marked by self-interest, a need for control, and subtle but potent emotional manipulation.

If you’ve ever questioned why a narcissist seems incapable of valuing you or why their actions leave you second-guessing their feelings, know that you’re not alone. Narcissists are masters of creating a fog of uncertainty. One moment, they make you feel like the center of their universe; the next, you’re treated as if you’re utterly invisible.
This jarring inconsistency can lead to the agonizing question: If they truly cared, why would they behave this way?

The reality is that narcissists are driven by complex, deeply rooted needs. While they may not want to…